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Wednesday, October 6, 2010

The London Coffee House: A Social Institution by Deborah Hale






April 2003
"Remember, John,
If any ask, to th' Coffee House I'm gone.
Then at Lloyd's Coffee House he never fails

To read the letters and attend the sales."
So went popular doggerel, during the two centuries (1650-1850) when the coffeehouse served Englishmen as a composite office, club and post box. As a social institution of the 18th century, the coffeehouse cannot be overestimated.
The hot stimulating beverage, which provided this focus for sober socialization, originated in the Near East. Spreading rapidly through the Moslem world, it was gradually introduced into Europe during the sixteenth century. By 1637, the diarist John Evelyn knew a Greek scholar at Balliol who brewed his own coffee. In that cosmopolitan university town of Oxford, the first English coffeehouse opened its doors in 1650.
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Two years later, a Greek proprietor established the first London coffeehouse, in St. Michael's Alley, Cornhill. Immediately and time-wastingly popular, by 1675 when Charles II closed all the coffeehouses in his realm, calling them "seminaries of sedition", their number totaled three thousand! So overwhelming was public pressure that the king rescinded his order in a matter of days. During Queen Anne's reign, London alone boasted nearly five hundred coffeehouses, each with its unique character and clientele. An amusing sketch in the Spectator records the different reactions to news of the death of King Louis XIV, at eight coffeehouses between St. James and Garraways.
Unlike the cafĂ©‚ of Continental Europe, the English coffeehouse served business as well as social purposes. In Ned Ward's Wealthy Shopkeeper, 1706, his daily routine went as follows: "Rise at 5; counting house till 8; then breakfast on toast and Cheshire cheese; in his shop for 2 hours; then a neighbouring coffeehouse for news; shop again till dinner…1 o'clock on change; 3 Lloyd's Coffeehouse for business; shop again for an hour; then another coffeehouse (not Lloyd's) for recreation." Businessmen often kept regular hours at a particular house, where clients would know to find them.
Gradually, certain establishments began to attract men with specific common business interests. The Jamaican Coffeehouse drew West Indian traders, while India and China merchants frequented Jerusalem and exchange brokers gathered at Jonathan's. Garraways, in Exchange Alley, catered to the tea trade. In 1744, London's Baltic Mercantile and Shipping Exchange had its beginnings in the Virginia and Baltic Coffeehouse, an outgrowth of the Virginia and Maryland. On the vast marble floor of the exchange, shippers and agents matched vessels and cargoes in secretive deals called "fixtures".
Perhaps most famous of the commercial coffeehouses was one opened by Edward Lloyd, on Lombard Street. There, shippers sought wealthy merchants to underwrite or "insure" their vessels, in the hazardous business of sea trade. By the end of Queen Anne's reign, Lloyd's had set up a pulpit for auctions and reading out shipping news. From such humble beginning rose the mighty "Lloyd's of London".
For the struggling author, playwright or artist, a regular coffeehouse was essential to the "business" of art. Most slaved away in cold dingy garrets, but for the price of a clean shirt and a few pennies admission, they could meet clients and patrons, collect their mail, make contacts and appointments and secure commissions, in respectable surroundings. The Oxford Literary Guide to The British Isles lists no less that fifteen London coffeehouses frequented by writers in "The Age of Reason", including Buttons, Dick's, St. George's, the Somerset, the Grecian and Don Salterno's, as the proprietor, one James Salter was nicknamed by Sir Richard Steele.
Poets, patrons and critics met at Will's Coffeehouse in Covent Garden, founded by Will Urwin in 1660. Samuel Pepys looked into Will's in 1668, "there I perceive is very witty and pleasant discourse." John Dryden had his own seat at Wills, by the fireplace in winter and by the window in summer. Patronage by the likes of Congreve, Pope and Wycherly earned Will's the title "The Wit's Coffeehouse". Artists like Hogarth, Hudson and Gainsborough gathered at Old Slaughter's.
Writers, booksellers and printers congregated at the Chapterhouse. Dr. Campbell, "strolled into the Chapter Coffeehouse, Ave Mary Lane, which was remarkable for a large collection of books and a reading society, and I subscribed a shilling for the right of a year's reading and found all the new publications I sought." The young Chatterton wrote to his mother, "I am quite familiar at the Chapter Coffee House and know all the geniuses there." He was not exaggerating. When Charlotte and Anne Bronte came to London to consult their publisher, they stayed at the Chapterhouse.
As a source of respectable recreation, coffeehouses provided a venue for men of similar views to congregate, smoke, read the papers, gossip and discuss the news, over a cup of coffee or chocolate. Unlike their Continental counterparts, Archenholtz reported that English coffeehouses had no billiards or gaming tables. There was little noise, he wrote, for everyone spoke low and read the papers. The Windsor, at Charing Cross, advertised, "the best chocolate at 12 pence the quart and the translation of the Harlem Courant, soon after the post is come in." Other houses provided upwards of a dozen copies of the most popular weeklies, of which there were 55 in 1709, from the Anti-Walpole Craftsman to the fiercely pro-government Gazeteer.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Do Your Friends Call You Weird?

As a child it is hard when you’re not accepted by your peers. Most kids, if not all, want to be a part of a group or clique’ but because people by nature can be cruel, there is always a group of kids who are labeled different or weird.

They are called that because they don’t fit in with everyone else. They may not be considered cool, trendy or popular. And to tell the truth, they’re not. They don’t do what the other kids do. They are not like everyone else.

But what about you? Do your friends call you weird? They should be. You should be doing things that they’re not willing to do and are unlike the norm. Your daily actions should be different then theirs and it should be out of the ordinary.

The word weird in the dictionary means of strange or extraordinary character.

I wonder are your actions and habits strange or of extraordinary character or are you just like everyone else?

When your friends are reading sports and fashion magazines or romance novels or sci-fi books, you should be reading a lot of personal development books. When your friends are looking for a government handout in the form of a stimulus check, you should be working to have a profitable business. When your friends are rushing home to see their favorite TV show, you should be cutting off the TV and writing good content for your blog. When your friends are on the phone dishing out the latest gossip, you should be networking with the movers and shakers in your industry.

You shouldn’t be doing what is trendy or popular. You shouldn’t be doing what everyone else is doing.

Millionaires aren’t trendy people. They set the trends and others follow.

You see what you believe is true and if you think the economy is bad and you’re going to struggle, you will. But if you think like a successful person, you will look for the opportunity regardless of what the economy is doing. You will not be doing what everyone else is doing and you will act like a weirdo.

So the next time you want to fit in, DON’T unless it’s with a bunch of millionaires. Then and only then will it be okay to conform to the group. Other than that run from the crowd, be different, strange, be a weirdo.

To YOUR Success,

Rodney

Friends, Family, Strangers, And Nature - Why They Are All Important To Your Health

I often talk about looking at health as a whole and part of that 'whole' is preventative measures, nutrition, exercise, and many more non conventional ways to treat ailments in your body. But 'whole' can take on a different meaning as well. A feeling of wholeness can be related to a feeling of connection; Being connected to your family, friends, strangers, humanity, the earth, and even the universe!

Compassion, caring, understanding, and patience for each other can reduce being egotistic and self centered which in turn reduces a negative outlook on life which in turn reduces stress, anger, depression, loneliness, and many other negative emotions.

This negativity can lower your immunity and wreak havoc to the nervous system among many other things as negative emotions are very stressful to our bodies and mental health.

I'm sure you have often heard that people in loving relationships tend to be healthier and live longer than people who are isolated and unhappy. It's just natural that when you feel good and positive you are able to see the happier side of life which reduces all those negative emotions.

Here are a few connections that you may want to start improving or even making to benefit your health.

Connecting With Animals

Research has shown that pets and people go hand in hand for less illness and faster recovery from serious illness. In fact, I know of many sick people who have pets that truly make every day better for them.

Pets give such great amusement and pleasure that it is hard not to be happy just watching them. They also seem to know the right moment to give you a kiss or hug that you so desperately need.

My dogs have the ability to make me break out in laughter in a split second and continue laughing until I can't take it anymore. Laughter really is the best medicine in any situation and their sense of humour should never be underestimated.

They listen to you with no interruptions and they are more patient than, for the most part, any other person you will find on this planet.

Do yourself a healthy favour and take the responsibility of owning a pet into your hands. The benefits will be worth every minute of picking up poop.

Connecting With Family and Friends

Yes family and friends can often cause a lot of headaches but they are essential to your health. Family does not just have to mean your mother and father and siblings. Family can include your friends, pets, and extended family - it can just be a group of people that you are absolutely comfortable with and able to be yourself around. Wherever it feels like home - you have family nearby.

Families should be a safe haven to run to when you are scared, feeling down, or just need help. They should be able to help you back on your feet and offer whatever they can to do so.

It has also been proven that people with a strong family network have less illness and recover from illness faster so start surrounding yourself with family and appreciate the bond that they offer you.

Connecting With the Earth

Nature's ability to heal is awe inspiring. We all feel better when we are surrounded by nature and the peace and serenity it offers us. In fact, most people have picture of nature as their screen savers on their computer just to see some beauty throughout the day!

Nature is part of us and we should be appreciating it every day.

If you are not taking advantage of all the 'medicine' this earth has to offer us then you are truly missing out on a huge, and in my opinion, necessary part of life.

Travelling can be great for the soul and most people want to escape to their favourite vacation spots for some rest and relaxation. I have never met anyone who has come back feeling worse from a relaxing vacation.

Getting out of the city and into the country for a hike, picnic, or just a few hours of reflection by a river or lake is essential to giving yourself a break from the busy and often stressful life in the city. Even a park setting in the city is better than nothing when looking for stress relief.

When you get out into nature use the direct and present calmness to your advantage by noticing the leaves changing colour at various seasons or by picking the raspberries that have just come into season. Be aware and listen to the wind blowing through the leaves or the river flowing over the rocks and really just connect with the sounds, sights, and smells that nature offers you.

Connecting With Strangers

This is important. When you begin to notice and acknowledge the people that are not a part of your immediate life then you begin to notice that the world is so much bigger than just you and that awareness can give you insights into your life which affect your outlook and happiness, which ultimately affects your health.

We are all connected on some level. We all share this planet and what it has to offer us. We all participate in making decisions that affect all of us on a daily basis. We are all connected by events or miracles that happen. We all see the same sun, stars, and moon every day and night. We are all connected.

I always say hi to strangers when I walk by them on a walk whether they say hi back or not. I find that acknowledging them gives me an awareness I may not have if I just passed them by with my head down.

Instead of just focusing on your route or tasks that only involve your life; take a few seconds out and try noticing the people around you when you are out and about. Try observing the fact that they are living lives with passions, dreams, and happiness and you will feel a stronger connection and awareness that you may have not have felt before.

Enjoy.

How to Write a Visa Letter of Invitation

If you are interested in finding out how to write a visa letter of invitation for a guest to your country, there are many helpful resources that you can use in order to write the best visa letter of invitation that you possibly can.  One such source is at the Queen Mary, University of London's website, in the Advice and Counseling Service Section, where there is a detailed explanation on what procedures to go through in writing your letter of invitation for a friend or family member to be admitted into your country through the visa and entry service established within Great Britain.  For instance, the website at the Queen Mary, University of London's website gives the following information on writing a visa letter of invitation.  According to the site, this is what you need to put in your invitation letter:
  • the full name and date of birth of the proposed visitor(s)
  • their relationship to you (parent, friend, etc)
  • why they want to come and visit you (for a holiday, to attend your graduation, etc.)
  • how long they want to stay in the UK and, if possible, their proposed arrival and departure dates
  • where they intend to stay; if they plan to stay with you, give your full address
  • your own immigration status in the UK (for example, student until 2007)

Friends With Benefits Rules

What is the ultimate relationship I hear you ask? Some would say Friends with Benefits is! Why is it great? Great sex, no worries about commitment and no need to chase her. However in reality, things can get pretty complicated in this type of relationship. Simply because of the emotions that are stirred up when two people get it on. The emotions during any relationship and particular this type can be difficult to manage and can cause some emotional problems.

Check out these basic ‘friends with benefits rules’ to help you navigate the treacherous waters of this type of relationship!

Rule 1: No Romance
Treat her no different than any other friend, male or female, until the benefits are abound. Sure, you may be friends who are sexually attracted to each other, but that’s it. You are only helping each other to relieve some sexual tension, and if either of you start to get romantic feelings you must reassess your situation right away. You will need to discuss these feeling, otherwise one of you will end up getting hurt. It might be that both of you feel the same way, which would be fantastic. It might be that it’s just a one-way thing. It’s best to know either way, really!

Summary of Rule is: If things change or you want things to change discuss it with her.

Rule 2: Safe Sex
No excuse, take cover. It has a twofold benefit. Reduces the risk of a little you crawling around and catching something you don’t get from online games. Even if your friend is on the pill, it may feel great without one – condoms are essential equipment and she is likely to respect you more for it.

Rule 3: Remember No is OK
Men can say No too. It is ok if you need to turn down your friend. When you have intimidate time is entirely up to you as well – and the fact is that not being allowed to have you will most likely make her want you even more next time. Women are considerably more attracted to men that can hold their own and dictate terms to them.

Rule 4: Balance
Remember your balance, don’t sacrifice life! Don’t jeopardise your job, your education or your friendships because of sex – no matter how much you enjoy it. While you are not having ’benefits’ you need to actually live your life. Don’t lose track of the outside world.

Rule 5: Only when you’re Single!
The number 1 most import thing about friends with benefit rules? When single, you can sleep around with whoever you wish to. If you start a relationship you need to end the benefits! It is essential that this happens if either of you get into a relationship, however the friendship can continue.

It is okay to have friends with benefits, but rules need to be followed. Enjoy your bonus’s, you deserve them and as long as it doesn’t control your life then make the most of a great situation

Ideas To Make Your Invitation Wording Personal

A wedding invitation ought to match the style and individuality of the ceremony and the happy pair. For lots of couples, this means a traditional invitation with set wording. But, some partners feel it prudent to express themselves in a unique style in their wedding invitation. Such a thing can be achieved through the wording.

The crucial part of the invite phrasing, naturally, is the who, what, when and where. As soon as those items have been shared, the possibilities in composition are boundless. Perhaps the hardest, and yet most extraordinary, alternative is for the couple to compose the invitation themselves. Creating their personal poem or special phrase allows the couple to share their true hopes with their invited revelers. If the couple will compose their own vows, the invite could include a phrase of what they plan on saying. However, a lot of couples are not sure about writing, and certainly not something so dear to them.

If the couple decided on a wedding theme, then the invitation should share that. For a Hawaiian day, the invite could be composed in both languages. For a knight-in-shining-armor theme, the invite could be composed in ”olde” English. Another alternative is to share a big moment in the couple’s relationship. For instance, if the bride and groom got engaged on vacation, the words of the invitation could reflect the location. For a couple fond of hair-raising things such as bungee jumping, the invitation could mention “taking a leap.”

Quotes are a traditional way to personalize an invite, but a couple can easily make a certain phrase theirs with an individual line that pertains to their courtship. If the relationship has a personal connection to a particular movie or piece of music, including a line will let all invited in on the personal moment. A bride and groom with a solid sense of humor could use a line from ”Sleepless in Seattle” or “The Princess Bride.” A snippet from the song they plan to use for their first dance as newlyweds would offer a delightful continuity.

Myriad invitations use quotes from Shakespeare or Elizabeth Barrett Browning. Still, the majority of folks do not realize that Edgar Allen Poe and Emily Dickinson also composed love poems along with their drearier writings. A couple that’s concerned with the environment may find that a stanza from a Walt Whitman composition suits their needs.

A religious ceremony doesn’t have to be boring. Lots of people believe the Song of Solomon to be high on the list of the most romantic poems ever put to paper. A stanza from this section of the Bible could help a bride and groom express their beliefs and their emotions at the same moment.

Wording a wedding invitation requires that you note all pertinent details of the occasion. It also allows you to express and share your real style. No matter if the happy pair is planning for a bright and entertaining atmosphere, or a more sentimental setting, the bride and groom need to remain true to their personalities. If they keep with that, then the invitation will surely be extraordinary

Handmade Personal Christmas Gifts

Holiday season is here for many different reasons, you might decide that you will be giving personal Christmas presents to the ones you love. It could be that you have someone on your Christmas list that is very difficult to buy for. It could be because you want to express very particular feeling towards somebody that is on your Christmas presents list. Or, due to the economical situation, you want to reduce your Christmas budget buyings and give less expensive presents this year. Here are a few ideas for personal Christmas presents that you can create:

Personalized Gingerbread people

You can create gingerbread men, women, and children, and you can decorate them to resemble the person or people who you are going to give it to. By adding their initials or names on them these presents will be more personalized. That kind of personal Christmas gift is great when you are going to visit another family.

Name poems

It is not hard to make name poems and they are excellent personal Christmas presents. If you are not a good writer, you can make a search on the Web and use a poem that is already done. Only change the first and last name by those of the recipient. You can also enhance the look of the poem in different ways such as coloring and printing it on the computer or better, by printing it on paper that looks like old parchment.

Photographic presents

Photographs are fantastic tools as they let you create a good number of different personal Christmas presents. For for example, you could make a photo album of your relatives or if you are skilled, you may go for a decoration item adorn with photos. You may even create a "special friend" photo album, that has pics of you with the recipient. If you have craft skills, you could also create the photo albums from any scrapbooking kits or at home using rag board and colored paper.

Personalized Bottle Of Wine

If your friend or relative is a wine amateur, you might want to give a personalized bottle of wine. You can do this by customizing a blank sticker by hand or on your computer with the help of a graphic editing software.

With a little effort you can create wonderful and personal Christmas presents for your friends and loved ones that will be cherished for a long time. As you can see, there are a lot of wonderful and personal Christmas presents that you can create for your friends and loved ones with a little creativity