Friends With Benefits Rules

What is the ultimate relationship I hear you ask? Some would say Friends with Benefits is! Why is it great? Great sex, no worries about commitment and no need to chase her. However in reality, things can get pretty complicated in this type of relationship. Simply because of the emotions that are stirred up when two people get it on. The emotions during any relationship and particular this type can be difficult to manage and can cause some emotional problems.

Check out these basic ‘friends with benefits rules’ to help you navigate the treacherous waters of this type of relationship!

Rule 1: No Romance
Treat her no different than any other friend, male or female, until the benefits are abound. Sure, you may be friends who are sexually attracted to each other, but that’s it. You are only helping each other to relieve some sexual tension, and if either of you start to get romantic feelings you must reassess your situation right away. You will need to discuss these feeling, otherwise one of you will end up getting hurt. It might be that both of you feel the same way, which would be fantastic. It might be that it’s just a one-way thing. It’s best to know either way, really!

Summary of Rule is: If things change or you want things to change discuss it with her.

Rule 2: Safe Sex
No excuse, take cover. It has a twofold benefit. Reduces the risk of a little you crawling around and catching something you don’t get from online games. Even if your friend is on the pill, it may feel great without one – condoms are essential equipment and she is likely to respect you more for it.

Rule 3: Remember No is OK
Men can say No too. It is ok if you need to turn down your friend. When you have intimidate time is entirely up to you as well – and the fact is that not being allowed to have you will most likely make her want you even more next time. Women are considerably more attracted to men that can hold their own and dictate terms to them.

Rule 4: Balance
Remember your balance, don’t sacrifice life! Don’t jeopardise your job, your education or your friendships because of sex – no matter how much you enjoy it. While you are not having ’benefits’ you need to actually live your life. Don’t lose track of the outside world.

Rule 5: Only when you’re Single!
The number 1 most import thing about friends with benefit rules? When single, you can sleep around with whoever you wish to. If you start a relationship you need to end the benefits! It is essential that this happens if either of you get into a relationship, however the friendship can continue.

It is okay to have friends with benefits, but rules need to be followed. Enjoy your bonus’s, you deserve them and as long as it doesn’t control your life then make the most of a great situation